The prompt is written in French and works in any language model that understands French.

A friend, neighbor or colleague has just lost someone dear, and you're staring at a blank card with no idea what to write? This free prompt for ChatGPT helps you write sincere condolences that sound like you, with no stock phrases and no awkward missteps. Instead of a sample sympathy letter copied from the internet, you get a text built from your relationship with the person and your memories.

Who is it for?

• Individuals and seniors who want to write the right words to a loved one in mourning.

• People who need to write to a colleague or neighbor they barely know.

• Anyone afraid of hurting someone with a clumsy sentence.

What you get

• Three versions of your message: a short card, a mid-length message (text, e-mail or small card) and a longer letter.

• A recommendation on which version best suits your situation.

• A list of phrases to avoid in your specific case, with an explanation for each.

How to use it

• Copy the prompt into ChatGPT.

• Fill in the fields: your relationship with the person, the first name of the deceased, one or more memories if you have any, and whether you use the informal or formal form of address.

• Write "to be determined" whenever you don't know: the AI picks the most cautious option and tells you so.

• Send it, then choose the version that sounds like you and adjust it to your taste.

Example of the expected result

For a colleague writing to Jean-Pierre after the death of his wife Hélène, the short card might begin like this: "Dear Jean-Pierre, I was deeply saddened to hear of Hélène's passing. I still remember the jams she brought us every summer…"

What the prompt does not do

The AI does not invent any memory, anecdote or cause of death. When a detail is missing, it leaves a visible marker, "TO BE COMPLETED:", so you can add it yourself. It only uses religious wording if you state the recipient's beliefs. Always reread the final text: your sincerity is what will matter most to the bereaved person.